What could have possibly made my already horrible day worse? Friday was a crappy day. I was in a horrible mood because of my injuries. Then right before day’s end I got the news that I was NOT picked for the promotion at work. The reason? Completely petty and bullshit in my opinion but I won’t go into it here.
Needless to say I was a raging ball of fury Friday night. I made it to the pool (late) and am happy to report that I had a fantastic swim. Rage tends to do that…I swam HALF A MILE in 15 MINUTES. Without stopping. And then I continued. I swam mostly freestyle because it didn’t cause me any discomfort in my lower extremities. My body felt no pain in the water PLUS I swam hard. Really hard. The end result:
100 Lengths of the pool (down and then back) in 50 minutes. That’s 50 laps. Just under 1.5 miles.
I felt fantastic after my swim. I was still angry and sad but my body felt good.
While I was at the pool, Michael did some grocery shopping and made dinner: Eggplant Parmesan.
These photos are courtesy of Michael. 😉 He sliced the eggplant and laid them on a paper towel. He sprinkled salt on them to soak up all the liquid.
It works magic too! I’ve seen him do it before. In fact, this dish is one of the FIRST meals we cooked together when we first started dating. I have fond memories of that. After 20 minutes he brushed all the salt off, scored the skin of the eggplant, and cooked it in the skillet with Grapeseed Oil. He says he didn’t cook it all the way since he was baking it too.
He didn’t bread the eggplant and honestly it didn’t need it.
He added fresh garlic to the jar of red sauce and it made it much better.
I got home from the pool when he was just starting to layer the eggplant with the sauce and shredded Italian cheese mix. When I walked in the door, distraught, and he handed me this:
And these:
All to cheer me up. He treated me like a Princess.
Which I really needed. He listened to me cry and whine, moan and then scream about my body, my injuries, my job…It helped to get it all out. He just listened to me and tried to make me feel better. And he got me more presents!
Lotion from Costco. Much needed because as a swimmer I go through obscene amounts of lotion and moisturizer. His efforts were not unnoticed. He was my Knight in Shining Armor and it was much appreciated.
He baked the eggplant parm until the cheese was melted and bubbling. He prepared some sourdough french bread with butter and dinner was delicious. Gooey, cheesy and garlicky. I hadn’t had much of an appetite because of the bad day but the food was too good not to eat.
Michael took over drinking my beer and I switched to wine. I wanted something strong instead.
I drank two glasses of wine, had a second helping of Eggplant Parm and then we went to bed. I slept fitfully…Deep sleep mixed in with bad dreams. But I woke up feeling pretty refreshed and the fury had subsided. It didn’t stay dormant for long, but I’m working through the stages of grief.
QUESTION: How do you make Eggplant Parm? And tell me something you’re currently angry about.
Lynne
Hi Lisa, love your blog, you keep me going when I get frustrated and hit roadblocks. I’ve lost about 70 pounds so far and have another 75 or so to go. Thanks for the inspiration!
Lisa Eirene
Thank you Lynne! I needed to hear that today. 🙂 I’m glad I could inspire you. And congrats on losing 70 pounds! You should be very proud of yourself.
Kristina @ spabettie
sorry about everything… I know how frustrating injuries can be, especially when you are taking care to go slow and heal. sorry about the promotion too 🙁
sounds like you’ve got a great partner in Michael (I LOVE that he takes photos while cooking!!) to help you get through the tough times.
I’m going to be extremely vague, but right now I’m upset about a commitment someone made, and has yet to follow through. it’s annoying, because her excuse is “too busy” (yep, aren’t we all!) and yet she finds time to finish other extra curricular things in her life. it just shows how little respect she actually has for me and the commitment she made (almost a year ago!), and that’s what is lame.
*whew* thanks! I needed that!
Lisa Eirene
Venting is good for the soul! Thanks for sharing, Kristina.