Moderation.
Remember when I mentioned I had two holiday parties coming up that I knew I’d indulge in food and alcohol? The first one was on December 6th; it was Michael’s work holiday party. It was held at Union Pine, a very cool event space, was catered with Hawaiian BBQ and there was a full bar. Michael’s company told everyone to take a cab to the event and expense it to them–sweet!
Is this room spinning or is it just me?
Yeah….so that moderation thing? I didn’t do so well at the first party! I ended up drinking 4 Ketel One Lemon Drops that evening–twice the amount I normally drink ever. And I’d been taking a break from drinking for about 3 weeks leading up to the party.
I definitely drank too much (probably 500 calories worth) BUT I didn’t overeat. It was a buffet and the chances of overeating were strong, but I didn’t. I was so busy socializing, meeting people, dancing and talking that I didn’t eat much.
The liquid calories were definitely more than I planned on having and I only sort of regretted it the next morning (luckily the hangover wasn’t too bad). (On a completely unrelated note, I wish I didn’t look so pale in every photograph that is taken of me. I think the flash washes out my already ghostly skin tone. Any tips on that??)
Creatives sure know how to party. It was a really fun event and I am so glad that Michael got a fantastic job at such a cool company.
The second party I was worried about was my family Christmas party. There is always so so much amazing food, it’s hard not to indulge. My family is full of good cooks. My uncle Pete (seen below) is the king of the grill. He did a prime rib and pork chops on the grill for the party (massive amounts of meat). The meat was cooked perfectly, juicy and flavorful from the smoker. I had 1 piece of of the prime rib and wanted a ton more but I was too full from everything.
We’d all been snacking all afternoon on veggies and dip, crackers and cheese, fruit, deviled eggs, nuts and I did too. I managed to pace myself and eat only little bites instead of gorging myself. Dinner was the meat, a potato casserole, several choices of salads, crusty french bread and of course…mac n’ cheese!
Michael made is famous mac n’ cheese because I don’t think we would have been let in the door had we shown up empty handed. His mac is requested at every event we take it to. My aunt requested it specifically. He made a double batch because last time not everyone got a chance to try it. Look at how good it looks:
The wine was flowing, lots of Cabernet sauvignon and California reds. There was tons of other alcohol , including eggnog, but I limited myself to two glasses of wine–unlike the other party.
Almost everyone was there, just a few family members were missing, like my brother. I had family come to Oregon from Wyoming, California, Texas, Florida, and Washington. My grandma celebrated her 91st birthday the day before the party. Look at how beautiful she looks:
And of course, the family was visited by Santa Claus! (Whom is really my aunt’s actor friend who kindly does it every year for the kids.) Santa sang Christmas carols with the little kids and might have gotten a little fresh with Grandma. 🙂 It was all good fun. After Santa we did the white elephant gift exchange and it got very loud and rowdy.
Here is one of Michael and I:
Despite a few slip ups, I am still doing really well on my holiday plan to limit alcohol and sugar. I’ll be stepping on the scale this week and crossing my fingers the moderation has paid off.
QUESTION: Do you have a lot of holiday parties to attend this time of year? What’s harder—food or liquid calories?
Carrie @ Season It Already!
There’s something to be said for not being really “in” to the holidays this year. I don’t buy any special treats, only have one party to go to and am not decorating because we are just going to visit family out of town. I need to look at it as a positive thing that I’m not tempted!
Lisa Eirene
Agreed. Last year for Thanksgiving it was just my boyfriend and I so we cooked some game hens, roasted some sweet potatoes and veggies and called that Thanksgiving dinner. I didn’t overindulge and still enjoyed our “mini holiday”!
Esther
Most of the time, there’s never any good alcohol at parties I go to, so I stick to food. I am going to try moderation at our own party this weekend, but who knows? I am tempted to make the mac n cheese for the party, though I’d prolly eat the whole dish!
LOL.
Lisa Eirene
Michael’s work party had top shelf liquor. It was nice. 🙂
Yum Yucky
I enjoyed all the pics! You’re looking fantastic ‘n stuff. I don’t get very liquidy with my calories, but pass a slice of pie under my nose and you’ll never see it again.
Lisa Eirene
Thank you my friend!
My weakness is wine, honestly. Those lemon drops were definitely out of the norm for me. But put a steak in front of me and I want a big glass of red wine with it! (I’m with ya on the pie, too…)
Michelle @ Eat Move Balance
Oh, but the parties look like fun! I love holiday parties! For me, it’s the liquid calories that add up, probably because its not as filling and I don’t pay as much attention as I do with food.
Lisa Eirene
Yes, and it’s easy to lose track of how many drinks you’ve had….
Roz@weightingfor50
Fun pictures Lisa. You look really pretty in them! Sounds to me like you are doing very well – cheers to that! 🙂
Lisa Eirene
Thank you Roz!
Sara
You did really well! I’m nervous for this month. Have a dinner tomorrow, party Friday, 2 parties Saturday back to back, Christmas with my parents on Sunday, then 10 days in GA with relatives. I have a plan of attack but I don’t foresee this month being a month for weight loss. Crossing my fingers I can retain some level of moderation and come out at least with only a couple pounds tacked on instead of 5!
Lisa Eirene
Wow that’s a busy weekend! Good luck!
You might just have to make your goal to maintain until January. I’ve done that before. I know it’s unrealistic to expect a weight loss during the holiday season but trying to just maintain is sometimes easier.
Sara
I would be thrilled to maintain! Last Christmas I gained 3-4# and while that isn’t huge for a week away I would love love love to just maintain this year!
Lisa Eirene
3-4 pounds isn’t TOO bad, but I understand how you feel. Just seeing 1 pound can sometimes be discouraging. Stay strong!!!
Rachel
You look great and the holiday parties look like so much fun. I was wondering if you have any tips for keeping track of the number of drinks you have? When I was much younger I would pace myself by making hash marks on my hand with a sharpie…I need to implement some kind of similar system but now I’m kinda past the stage of wanting to wear my tally marks.
Lisa Eirene
Good question! I read an article once about smart phone apps you can use to keep track of the drinks. Some of them estimate your BAC too. You could wear a few bracelets on one wrist and then with each drink you move one bracelet to the other wrist. I did something similar when I was running on the track. I used hair ties to keep track of how many laps I did by moving them to the other wrist.
Daphne @ Daphne Alive
What a fantastic question! I have a really hard time turning down liquor. And when I have a little extra alcohol I tend to overeat, it’s a really bad downward spiral. If I can keep the alcohol in check I’m usually good to go!
I also wanted to say that you look fabulous!! The black dress is beautiful, and in the second party–Red is so your colour!
Lisa Eirene
YES! Once you start drinking, it makes it so easy to keep eating. I know I do. I say “f*ck it, I’m eating everything!” I don’t do it often but once in awhile I slip.
Thank you for the compliment! The first dress was one I got at Ross ($20) but it looks so glamorous with the shimmery fabric.
Beth
I LOVE THAT DRESS! You look great. I’m a sucker for good wine. I find that so many times my eyes are bigger than my stomach and the food is only mediocre. Gearing up for winter break – some time away and 2 weeks no school – tough being out of a routine.
Lisa Eirene
Thanks! I love the dress too! I bought it for NYE but it worked for that party. I tend to like earth tones better.
I’m with you — if food is mediocre, I have a much easier time taking a bit and then not eating any more of it.
Jess
WOW Michaels company sounds awesome! So nice that they wanted everyone to have a good time AND get home safely.
I don’t have a lot of holiday parties, but my birthday and my mums birthday are tomorrow and the day after. I have dinner out tonight, tomorrow night and Saturday night, plus Saturday lunch… I plan on behaving at every meal except my birthday dinner… There will be creamy pasta, and brownie, and it will be good!
Lisa Eirene
Michael got REALLY lucky with this job! It’s the best!
Happy early birthday! Definitely enjoy yourself and eat whatever you want. It’s one day out of the year. 🙂
I ❤ 2 Eat
You look so nice in the pictures, Lisa! It’s the flash’s fault about looking pale – the same thing happens to my husband. So when I take pictures of him, I tone down the flash a little, or if I can, then take the pictures without flash (in daylight, for example).
I have two work holiday parties – mine and husband’s – both of which are at restaurants, so I can control what I eat. It’s always the sweets with me, more than anything else, and holiday treats are so delicious! There are a few odd parties here and there, too, but we’ll see how those go..family style things are also places where I am worried about initially and after the party, but over-indulge when I eat!
Lisa Eirene
Thank you!
Yes, I think you are right! The flash always washes me out.
Do you already know what you are going to order at the restaurants for the parties?
Hannahviolin
I usually allow overindulging at parties, but it’s harder in the holidays when the parties come close together. I have a problem with both drink AND food, and the more I drink, the more food I’ll want! Bad combination.
You look really pretty in your dress! Nothing wrong with pale skin!
Lisa Eirene
YES! Good point. At Christmas time the holidays are back to back and that’s when it gets hard.
Alex @ Brain, Body, Because
I’m glad to hear that you’ve been managing to navigate this party season!
I agree that family parties can be the toughest. Good food is one thing, but good food that you grew up with that immerses you in nostalgia is a completely different beast and MUCH harder to resist.
Fortunately, you’ve been doing so well all year that you have room for a little indulgence!
Lisa Eirene
You make a good point I didn’t think about. It’s definitely a nostalgia thing.