Did you miss Part One of the FAQ? Check it out here. This will be an ongoing series as I get emails and comments with questions from readers. If I haven’t answered something, just leave a comment below.
I just found your blog recently. Where should I start reading?
My blog has evolved a lot since it’s inception in 2010. In the beginning I didn’t really have a vision for this website, partly because I didn’t really think anyone would read it! As it grew, my style changed. I got away from the “This is What I Ate” type of posts. I was personally bored writing them, so I assumed readers were bored reading them. I do post recipes here and there. As a result of this evolution, I think a lot of my newer posts are probably better. Here are some suggestions:
My Fat History – this is sort of an “About Me” type of page.
How I Lost 110 Pounds – answers the basic questions about how I lost the weight.
Why Wednesday – Why You Should Lose Weight Slowly
Polar Heart Rate Monitor Tutorial
My Thoughts on The Four Hour Body Week
Don’t Break the Bank Getting in Shape
I Can Barely Walk, But I Can Definitely Swim
How to Plan Some Awesome Meals
How often do you weigh in on the scale? Do you still record your weight and calories at myfitness pal?
I weigh myself once a month. I’m at the stage right now where I don’t fluctuate in my weight very much beyond a pound of water retention. I use the monthly weigh-in just to check in with myself. Even though I don’t see a change in the scale, I still want to be aware. I went scale-free last summer and it really helped me to not care about that number on the scale as much. It did wonders for my self-esteem!
Yes, I still use MyFitnessPal to record my weight, my food intake and my exercise. I also track on the site Cronometer. It’s a great website to log foods and analyze trends in eating and nutrients. Even though I am in maintenance mode and not trying to lose, I still have to do what worked to lose the weight. I will always count my calories. I may not be restricting in order to lose, but I still have to be accountable to myself.
I may not talk about it much on my blog anymore since I don’t post my weigh-in or post my food as often, but I still do it. It’s a MUST. I have to be accountable if I’m going to keep the weight off long term.
What do you do if you start seeing an upward trend on the scale? ( like a gradual, slow gain).
This doesn’t happen often anymore. Like I said above, I’m maintaining and my weight doesn’t change much. It may fluctuate a few pounds during that time of the month, but I don’t count that. Month in and month out I’ve been the same weight —somewhere in the 144’s (144.4, 144.6, etc).
There was one time after I reached goal weight where I did gain weight. I started taking a medication that unfortunately caused weight gain. Sadly, I didn’t put two and two together until almost a year had passed and I’d gained 15 pounds. As I saw those numbers tick up on the scale, I ignored them. I was running all the time, I was training for Hood to Coast, and I blamed the numbers going up on that. It wasn’t until I realized that the drugs caused weight gain and that gaining 15 pounds even though I was counting my calories AND exercising 5 days a week was NOT NORMAL, that I stopped the medication. I lost weight pretty quickly and it reaffirmed that the medication was packing on the pounds.
Now, medication-free and doing all the “right” things, if I saw a gain I’d pay attention. First, I would measure my body and see if I was gaining muscle. Second, I’d start being more careful with measuring my food and not “eye-balling” it. Lastly, I would pay attention to my sugar intake. Am I drinking more alcohol more frequently?
Am I digging into the Candy Room at work more often? Am I having too much dessert too often?
When you first started swimming how did you get into the swim suit? Were you embarrassed by your thighs or butt?
I knew that swimming was the right exercise for me as a way to lose weight. First, it was something I’d always loved doing as a kid and as a teen so I knew I’d stick with it. Second, swimming was a good activity for an obese person with sore joints.
Getting into that swim suit was the only option. I had to in order to lose the weight. I just knew it was something I had to overcome. No matter how embarrassing or uncomfortable it was, I had to do it. Something that helped was wearing a swim suit that had a skirt attached to it like this one:
The suit I had was nowhere near as cute as that one. But it had a skirt that covered some of my thigh region–the part I was most self-conscious about. That helped. And honestly, once I was in the pool it wasn’t even an issue because no one could see me under water. 🙂
It looks like you like beer. Isn’t that high in calories?
Why yes it is! Especially if you like the IPAs that I drink almost exclusively. IPAs are often between 180-220 calories a pop. That’s quite a bit. I follow my “90/10 Rule“, which means I eat in a healthy way most of the time, but I splurge and indulge, too. It’s called enjoying everything in moderation! Even beer! If that means I only have 1 beer once in awhile, that’s okay by me. Because I’m not DENYING myself anything. I’m not on a diet. I made a lifestyle change.
What kind of camera do you have?
I have a Canon Rebel and I LOVE IT! It’s my “precious.” I love my camera so much. It’s a great camera, takes wonderful pictures–while I am still learning how to use it. I took one camera class but for the most part I’ve been teaching myself with just practice, practice, practice. I use LightRoom to edit my photos.
How often would you run when you trained for a race? Did you give yourself days off for rest? How many? Did you cross train during that time? I just started running and wondering if I could run more than 3x/week.
Great questions! I was running 3 days a week on average when I was running a lot. In the beginning I had to give myself a few days in between my runs because my thighs would be really sore. But as I conditioned my body and got better at running, I could run two days in a row if I wanted to.
I did a lot of cross-training simply because I’d always done it. I swam two days a week no matter what because swimming was how I lost my weight and I loved doing it. I tried to fit in a yoga class here and there as well. I also spent one day a week doing cardio at the gym (stair-master usually).
If you’re just starting out with running, I really suggest following a plan for beginners. Increasing mileage, speed or frequency too much too soon leads to injury or over-training. While I did not follow a “program,” I have heard really good things about the Couch to 5k Program. It’s worth a try. Good luck!
QUESTION: I love getting reader mail, so ask away if you have any questions!
Daphne @ Daphne Alive
It’s nice to learn more about you! I wholeheartedly agree with the 90/10 rule!
Lisa Eirene
Thanks for checking it out.
Roz@weightingfor50
Hi Lisa, love this post. It’s great to reread some of your older posts, as you are an ongoing inspiration.
Lisa Eirene
Yeah sometimes starting a blog is like picking up a book and reading from the middle instead of the start. It’s hard!
Trevor
Hey Lisa, I’m not sure if this qualifies as a frequently asked question, but I’m curious . . . how did you achieve the change in mindset required to accomplish such impressive weight loss. I know you had a revelation, and I certainly know the effort you’ve put into reaching the degree of health you now enjoy.
What I find intriguing though, is the mental aspect of it all. I imagine that must have been the greatest challenge you faced.
So how does one create a mindset that results in a complete lifestyle overhaul and a loss of 110 pounds?
Cheers!
Lisa Eirene
It’s a good question and one I get asked a lot. Two things helped me. The first was having a specific goal and date. I had 10 months before I was going to be a bridesmaid in my brother’s wedding. I made a goal to lose 50 pounds by the wedding and I reached the goal the day of! Having a date and a reason helped motivate me when things got hard. Then it was easy to keep going and lose the other 50.
The other thing that helped me change my mindset? I was so sick of being fat. I was sick of the body pain, the rejection from people, feeling sorry for myself or not liking how I looked. Sure vanity had something to do with it but I was just fed up. I wasn’t happy, I wasn’t doing what I wanted to do and it was time for a change. That motivated me!
Trevor
You make it sound so simple. I like simple.
It sounds to me like what you are saying is you changed who you are . . . and your body naturally changed to reflect the different person you became. Of course, by “naturally” I don’t mean effortlessly. I mean as a natural consequence of the lifestyle the new you chose to live.
Thanks for answering my question.
Cheers!
Lisa Eirene
I suppose it wasn’t “simple.” Maybe it was a bit OCD. I fixated on the goal I wanted to achieve and got a bit of tunnel vision. That definitely helped me. It made it easier to resist temptation when I was super focused on my goal. And yes, I did become a different person with the weight loss. I think it came from finding something I enjoyed doing (swimming and fitness in general) that made me feel good and confident. That made my self-esteem go up and I started to expect MORE for myself. if that makes any sense!
Trevor
Expecting more of yourself makes perfect sense. Thank you.