mo·men·tum Noun/mōˈmentəm/
1. The quantity of motion of a moving body, measured as a product of its mass and velocity.
2. The impetus gained by a moving object.
Working out with friends brings all kinds of joy and challenges that you may not be expecting. I like going to the gym with my friend Robyn for a lot of reasons. The biggest reason being I get to spend time with my friend and catch up.
Recently on the #fitblog chat one of the questions was what are we willing to give up in order to fit in fitness? My answer was that I give up a lot of social things in order to get my workouts in. Most of the time I can do both–I can bike to work or run at lunch to free up an evening here and there for plans with friends. Or I can switch my Rest Days so I can do fun things. It works. It was hard in the beginning of my weight loss journey because I wanted to go out with friends, go to Happy Hours, etc. but I didn’t want to give up my swims. I learned to make both work together. So it’s pretty great that I can work out WITH some of my friends. I get the best of both worlds: a good sweat and good girl time.
Another reason I like working out with Robyn is because she pushes me to challenge myself. She can lift heavier weights than me and she inspires me to try to lift more. I can easily get into a “comfort zone” where I do the same routine each time without increasing the weights and not even know it.
Recently we worked out. She challenged me to add some weight to the machines and I did–and it felt great. And she pointed out that I was doing one machine (for the back) too quickly. “Hold for a 4 count and do it slower,” she told me. I tried it and said it was much harder to do that. She laughed and said “It’s supposed to be!” And she was right. I was using my momentum to lift the weights because it was easier but that’s not efficient OR beneficial! I corrected my behavior immediately. It was a good reminder.
We also ran on treadmills side by side. It was a nice way to get in my run because we were chatting quietly to each other and I was able to ignore whatever aches and pains I was feeling. I felt fast and strong and enjoyed my run a million times more. When I was done I felt great!
Gym Stats:
Time: 1:41
Calories Burned: 654
It was great to see my friend while I got in my gym time. When I got home Michael and I made a different kind of dinner. I’d been craving polenta recently and decided to try something new.
I chopped up a shallot and Michael sauteed it in the skillet. I cooked the polenta in the microwave and then mixed in the shallots. I loved the extra flavor that the shallots gave to the polenta.
Next time I would use more shallots. Michael cooked us boneless pork chops with salt and pepper seasoning. It’s a simple meal and can be done fairly quickly.
The flavors went well together. I love how simple and hearty polenta is. I already have other ideas on how to prepare the polenta to add variety.
My day ended feeling content from good food, good girl time, a good workout and good playtime with Fat Kitty. I have to admit I’m kinda enjoying that the Fall weather is keeping me inside.
QUESTION: What challenges do you get from your friends? What are you willing to give up in order to fit in fitness?
RunEatRepeat
I love polenta (was even adamant about having it at my wedding!), but have never made it from scratch.
Lisa Eirene
How did you have the polenta prepared for your wedding? I LOVE polenta. I guess technically I haven’t really made it from scratch because both times now I’ve microwaved it. But it was so dang easy (and tasty) I’m not sure I’d bother making it from scratch the long way.
Lisa
Yay for training buddies!
And I certainly had to give up quite a few ‘social’ things when training! But also learn to fit them in around my training too!
Lisa Eirene
The only social things I really “give up” now are the last minute invites to things. My life is pretty structured and we have plans on the calender weeks in advance. Last minute things don’t usually work for either Michael or me. Which kinda sucks but sometimes that’s how it is.
Maria (RealFitMama)
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE polenta!!
I am constantly challenged and pushed by my friends to keep up my fitness because they also enjoy running, biking, weights and yoga. I firmly believe that surrounding yourself with like minded people is the healthiest of living.
I am willing to give up social gatherings for fitness, but not family time. Sleep…maybe.
Lisa Eirene
What do you do to your polenta? I love new ideas!
And YES surrounding yourself with healthy people makes it so much easier. I love that Michael and I have some friends who like doing things like hiking and biking. It’s so cool to spend time doing an activity.
I am less likely to give up sleep for fitness. That is the main reason I am so not a morning workout person. I’d rather sleep as late as I possibly can before getting up to go to work. Especially in the winter time.
Erin
Where do you buy polenta (and in what section of the grocery store)? I have only seen it in pre-made rolls at Trader Joe’s. I have looked at Fred Meyer but couldn’t find any.
Lisa Eirene
I found the polenta in the baking section in Safeway. I’m sure it’s probably the same at Freddies. I usually buy the logs of polenta at Trader Joe’s.
Ashley
I’ve never had polenta, but I keep meaning to try it!
I actually am not a good workout buddy. I like it to be my me-time and am completely focused on my own deal. I like group fitness classes, but I like going to them alone.I don’t want anyone else’s motivation (or lack thereof) to interfere with my workout.
Lisa Eirene
I am usually with you, Ashley. I prefer my workout time to be Me Time. But once in awhile it’s nice to have a buddy–especially when it comes to running. Having a running buddy helps me go further and not give up as easily.
Samantha
Hi Lisa! I’m so glad you had a good time at the gym. Right now I live away from friends and family so I usually work out alone but I often use a workout video with a funny instructor from the UK who makes me feel like I am in a group. But I can’t wait to get back to Canada to start exercising with my family. There’s nothing like it and like you said challenges you more and makes it more fun!
It’s funny cause I made polenta on tuesday night for dinner. I’m a vegetarian so it’s adds a perfect ‘meaty’ consistancy to our meal (My husband is not a veggie) I put it in a casserole dish alternating slices of polenta, red onion, purple pepper, white zuchini, butternut squash with a little tomatoes sauce and parmesan cheese on top. it was delish!
XO
Sam
Lisa Eirene
I just finished reading the book “Lunch in Paris” about an ex-pat living in Paris with her French husband. The cultural differences were really interesting to read about. For example, the French don’t really exercise for weight loss and they also eat smaller meals. It was so interesting! Have you noticed any differences living there?
Your polenta dish sounds GREAT!
Karen@WaistingTime
I’m jealous! Wish I had girlfriends for making my workouts fly by. Years back I had a great friend who went to the gym with me and we did Weigh Watchers together too. We had a lot of fun. And then she moved away:( Now I do cardio with my husband and strength training with my mom. Which works for me… but… ah… girlfriends:)
Lisa Eirene
There is something special about girlfriends! It’s a shame yours moved. 🙁